Well I finally got to St. John's Cemetery and the ladies in the office were most helpful. I found the Michael/Margaret(nee Maroney) Curtin plot but unfortunately no additional information was on the stone -the date of birth of both I believe being incorrect-contradictory to my information ( death certificates,etc). However what I learned was that a third individual was also buried on the site which appears to be a relation to Margaret as his last name is Jeremiah Maroney.
Now I wonder if anyone has any information other than what I managed to find. He was buried on 2/05/1955 and was 84 at his death. Graham Putnam Funeral home in Worcester buried him.. He was born -once again in unknown Ireland around 1871/1872 and appears to have immigrated around 1885 which may have been at the same time as Margaret. He is listed as a machinist working on Foster corner Bridge and boarded in 1889 at 167 Front but appears to have moved in 1890 to 140 Exchange. He is also listed on the 1900 Census as a boarder.
Anyone know anything about this gentleman? Also I can not say enough about the very helpful ladies in the St. John Cemetery office. They were enormously helpful.
Next to the Curtin/Bolack plot is another set of Curtins. And I am wondering if anyone has any connection to this family -perhaps related to my search. They are listed as follows: John J. Curtin 1857-1927; his wife Jane A. Cowell 1857-1928. His son James A. Curtin 1891-1935 and his wife Nellie Bowker 1892-1970.
Edit: I have learned that the last Curtin family has a lineage from Lowell and probably has no connection to "my" line. I have also been looking at the 1920 Worcester Census and discovered that Michael worked as a caretaker in the Worcester parks. Question: Would it be worth looking into whether the City of Worcester kept records of their employees in the 20s? Also I learned both Michael and Margaret were naturalized in 1890. Was that done in Worcester or did they have to travel to Boston. I know the family was in Worcester from 1889 to 1890 and were there in 1904 when Ethel-the second daughter,graduated from junior high and later went on to graduate from Classical High-I assume 4 years later. And I know the 3rd daughter, Lucy, was born in Providence RI in 1894 yet I can not find any of them in the 1890,1900 or 1910 Census. By 1920 John had already set up his own household and Michael and family are also listed there. John taught machine shop at Worcester Trade so he was also a civil city employee. Again back to the city of Worcester employees question.
Michael immigrated according to the census in 1883, Margaret in 1884 and they were married in 1889-John being born later that year. It appears those years between 1883 to 1889 were probably spent in Boston.